Should I Text My Ex To Tell Him I Miss Him?
Do you still have feelings for your ex but are unsure whether to tell him? Are you worried in case you get rejected or embarrassed? It is very understandable and normal to feel scared in this instance.
In this article, I will give you some suggestions of what to do and what not to do while texting. If you feel like you need more help make sure you read all the way to the end of this article where I discuss a step-by-step system that helps you text your ex, and in many cases win him back!
One of my friends broke up with her ex and after a short while, she genuinely missed him and the break just reinforced just how much she loved him. I remember the night she came around to and after a bottle of wine, spilled that she wanted to let him know that she missed him. I always advise never to do anything out of impulse or out of drink so I told her to sleep on it and also talked through all possibilities with her.
This kind of grounded her and made her realize that if she was going to do it then she must know whether he was feeling the same. I will do that same for you as I done for her and give you guidance as to whether you should tell him or not whether you miss him.
Don’t Put Him On The Spot
I suggested instead being a bit more subtle to scope whether he missed her too. She did this by sending a simple text saying that she had just spotted something that reminded her of him and asked how he was doing. The tone of the text was very friendly and light so as not to scare him and to make him think she was happy in life.
She got a response from him after doing this and they carried on the conversation until she eventually told him that she missed him. This worked so much better than sending that impulsive text she wanted to send after a couple of glasses of wine.
Ask Yourself What You Want
You believe that you truly miss your ex and really feel that you want to tell him so but before you do so, it is important to ask yourself a few questions. This is what helped keep my friend grounded and stopped her from sending an impulsive and emotional text message.
Think about what you expect to happen after you tell him that you miss him. Do you want a long lasting relationship with? Can you see yourself growing old with him? The more important questions what you need to ask yourself is how you feel if you get no reply or he rejects you.
It is important to fully consider every possibility before you tell your ex how you feel. If you still decide that you would like to tell him after thinking about all of these things then take it slowly. Do not send a text out of the blue and put him on the spot. If you aren’t already talking then try sending a friendly and happy text to initially start a conversation.
Don’t Try The "Wrong Person" Text
I have heard of plenty of women who have sent a hey, how are you text to their ex and then sent "oops wrong person" after a minute or so. They do this deliberately to try and start a conversation with their ex that they miss.
This isn’t the best thing to do as your ex will see straight through it and it’ll make you look a bit immature. If you really feel the need to text your ex then make it light and ask how he is or that you heard about his promotion and wanted to congratulate him. Other than this, I would probably avoid texting your ex even if you’re missing him.
Sometimes the best thing you can do is not break all contact with your ex. If he misses you too then he will come knocking. If he doesn’t miss you then he won’t make any effort to make contact. This is a sure fire way to find out of your ex misses you too. It is also less embarrassing than telling him and being ignored or rejected.
Sometimes It Just Takes Time
You have to remember that it can take many months to get over someone maybe even a year or two depending how long the relationship lasted. If you have only broke up with your ex recently then it is natural to miss them but it doesn’t mean that you want to get back with him. You need to give yourself time to get over him properly.
There are loads of things you can do to take your mind off of him and at the same time improve your lifestyle. You could focus your attention on getting super fit and healthy, you could spend more time enjoying time with the girls or you could start a new hobby that you have always wanted to try. You could venture into that new career you have always wanted to do or focus on getting that all important promotion.
Focusing your attention on something positive is the best remedy for a breakup. While you probably don’t feel like doing it now, you will feel absolutely liberated after you have achieved a new goal. Showing how happy you are and confident you might also grab the attention of your ex in case you want to win it back.
Take It One Step Further with A Proven System
If for whatever reason you find it too difficult to follow the steps above, and you have absolutely decided that you want to have your ex back at all costs, I sincerely recommend having a look at Michael Fiore's system called "Text Your Ex Back".
The reason that I recommend it, is because a number of my girlfriends have bought this course and have had a lot of success with it, including winning their exes back. I was surprised by the results, because one of my girlfriends in particular had been trying to win her ex back for over 6 months, and finally managed to succeed.
The reason I feel that this course is so effective is because Michael coaches you through each step.
Essentially he helps you identify what went wrong in your relationship, how you can address it, and how you can start communicating with your ex again using some amazing phycological tricks that get your ex responding to you again, and more importantly, seeing you in a new way!