A Scorpio man can be an interesting man to be in love with that sensual nature, the hot temper and his mysterious outlook on life! This is an intense man who can blow hot and cold, and often acts in different ways – loving yet jealous, powerful yet needy, independent and also demanding of attention.
This makes them harder to read than other signs, but not impossible, so if you are dating a Scorpio man or are interested in doing so and you want to see the signs of how a Scorpio shows love, read on!
Let’s get one thing out of the way off the bat – which is what we know all about Scorpios and what we usually hear in the media and that is around their love of sex, which is a huge part of their reputation! To help give you some hope if you are seeing a Scorpio and only this is on the table right now, what you might not know is that these powerful and sensual beings need a deep emotional connection as well and when they want to show love, they can use sex in that way. Just because he is not saying ‘I love you’ and things are mainly bedroom based it doesn’t mean that you are just a fling.
This fixed water sign will want to defend, maintain and uphold his position as a partner to you and if he loves you, this means that nothing and no one will sway his mind from that!
Water signs are known for being ruled by their emotions instead of their logical side, which means you are going to see some romance, as well as the less favoured Scorpio traits when he shows love to you. Let’s take a look at some of the signs you can look for.
- 1 How does a Scorpio man show love?
- 2 Is the Scorpio man in love with you?
How does a Scorpio man show love?
1. He’s introducing you to his family
There are a few signs like to take their new partners back to meet their family and really value it, and just like the Virgo man, the Scorpio water sign also really values his family. Not only is family important for him as a sociable being, but the Scorpio is a power signs and this means that they simply don't let people get close to them, or be a part of their inner circle, unless they feel like they can trust them and that they are a permanent member of the group.
His family will know him well, flaws and all, and one typical way of him showing love is introducing you to both his family and/ or his friends. It could feel very casual to you – perhaps a pool party or a BBQ, but if you have that invite, this is really a sign if love. A family wedding is another great example, and shows that he really wants you to be accepted into his inner circle as his partner. Be sure to accept an invite with grace and really take this as a positive sign that he wants to show you his love for you – even if that means you have to spend a Sunday running around the back yard with his nieces and nephews in order for this to happen!
2. He’s sharing on an emotional level with you
Scorpios don’t like to overshare and although emotional in their nature, that power element of their sign means they like to be in control at all times! Of course, sharing goes against this, so if you notice that he is going out of his way to be a lot more revealing, sharing
his innermost thoughts and feelings, especially more than he is with other people, even his close friends this is a real sign that you have captured his heart and that he wants to show you that.
He might start conversations with “Baby, you know, I've been meaning to tell you this…” or “This is how really feel about that situation.”
By their nature, Scorpio mean are a sign that like to hold secrets, even from their partner. Being betrayed by anyone will be one of his major life fears. He is unlikely to be the kind of man to reveal everything on social media about himself or your relationship and he will be keen to ensure that only the people closest to him know your business. At the same time, you can look to see that he is also keeping your secrets – in fact, you could even test this We can almost guarantee that anything you tell your Scorpio will be kept well under wraps. Sharing secrets together is a way that he shows you that he loves you. Plus, whilst other signs love a positive woman, the Scorpio is known to be. Big thinker and often revelling in the darker side of life. In short, there is not much to hide from him that would put him off you at this point.
3. He's going to be considerate of you.
You may know from the man in your own life that unfortunately, the Scorpio can come off as rude and self-centred and this is all about the power play and the control aspect of their sign. They simply don't mean to be this way, it's just things naturally come out that way as part of their nature. A Scorpio’s natural state is to think about the self, what they like, what they feel, how it affects them. That's part of the territory, when you deal with any of the fixed signs! So, this means that if you are seeing plenty more examples of where he has been considerate to you it’s a very big red flag that he is in love with you or showing you love and you are considered one of people that they truly care about. One of the ways you will see this is in acts of service and doing things to be selfless. If you need some food he will pick it up without being asked. He might take the dog for a walk, will set about giving the apartment a good clean, or will pick out your favourite film on the recorder for you- whatever he thinks would make you smile. Because Scorpios like to know you deeply, by now, he’ll have picked up on what it is that you need to feel loved and he will be trying to do that for you. If he is doing all of these things, it’s not only nice because it’s nice, it’s also amazing because this Scorpio man is showing love in a way that is at odds with his physical nature.
That’s’ not to say that he won’t be considerate in the bedroom as well! Scorpios very passionate people with their lovers and they really value closeness and will be keen to be just as giving in the bedroom as they are in the relationship! We’ll discuss this in the next point…
4. Your sex is more intimate than ever
Scorpio men are known for often needing sex as a way to help them show their emotions. If you are seeing an increased emotional and a physical connection you can be sure that the Scorpio man feels that connection with you. Everything about Scorpio, tends to be about sex sex sex – the men tend to have so much sex appeal that in beginning, you might be surprised if he not all over you day and night! Scorpios love to show affection and love in this way so be prepared for an increase in this area.
From sexual favours to emotions, what you will notice is that you start to feel a much closer bod beyond the intimate act. Those famous Scorpio eyes with that gaze will come into play, he will likely move a lot slower and he will savour the time with you, with lots of kissing and talking long after. For this man, this is a sign he really does want to move to a whole new level with you and wants to show how much he loves you.
You won’t be bored with a Scorpio and he will even be interested in playing less dominant in the bedroom in order to show his love for you, so look out for this as well.
5. He is displaying ownership towards you
Once a Scorpio has their pins on you, they will be keen to really keep you close. A Scorpio values loyalty and are known to be very committed and if he is showing love, and he may well have started calling you by pet names, calling you regularly and also taking on a negative Scorpio trait – investigating! this problem-solving sign likes to look on the gloomy side of life at times and can’t believe that everything is going so well. This means that he may be acting a little jealous or suspicious of you, even if he has little to no reason to do so!
He might start asking where you are going, what you have been up to and who you have been with. This is a negative trait, but just shows that he really wants to protect what you currently have. Ruled by his emotions, he can’t help himself and he is likely to feel bad about it afterwards, especially if the Scorpio temper takes off during a fight over what amounts to nothing.
He might start to be jealous over the smallest things, and this might make you want to back away from him and reconsider the relationship. You might also think that this is a funny game and something that could make him like you even more if you play along and make him want you more because you are ‘hot property’. Unfortunately, beware of this method, as bizarre as it seems, this jealous way of looking at life is his own strange way of showing you his love, even if it is unwanted!
A Scorpio would not like you to play games in this area, and unlike other signs like a Leo, who would be thrilled by the ‘fight’ he would simply feel heartbroken if he truly suspected you of cheating or falling for another man. To ensure that the Scorpio keeps his confidence in you, he simply needs reassurance – and probably some extra time in between the sheets, showing that you love him for him and that no one is going to get in between the bond that you have together.
Is the Scorpio man in love with you?
You are probably in no doubt that the Scorpio man in your life is showing some of these signs already. Loyal and strong willed, this sparky sign will be keen to show you he loves you, even if he does struggle against the more powerful elements of his sign that rule his temper, jealous and his ‘me me me’ attitude sometimes! However, as you can see, a Scorpio who feels happy and secure in his love life will be more than pleased to give unconditional love, acts of service and to share not only his deepest darkest secrets but to also bring you into his family circle and make you feel completely connected to him. ]
We hope you are on the track to this with your Scorpio man!
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