Hello and welcome to Her Aspiration. My name is Sonya Schwartz and my mission is to give women actionable relationship and dating advice with the aim of positively impacting those aspects of your life.
Her Aspiration was established in December 2015 with the aim of providing women with actionable tips and information that they can implement on a daily basis to improve their relationships. I was fed up with seeing information and blogs full of information that sounded great in practice, but didn't really give you all the details you needed to actually put it into practice. And so... Her Aspiration was born.
The reason that this topic is so close to my heart is because I struggled for many years in finding the right man who I wanted to share my life with. I know how utterly frustrating it can be.
I did finally find my dream husband Greg and we are now happily married, but it wasn't always like this.
In fact, it took me way too long to get to this place and I'd love to be able to help women that are struggling with this like I used to.
I went through it all.
In my circle of friends I was known for always choosing the wrong guy. Especially in my late 20s. I can't even recall how many relationships I went through, and none of them lasted more than a couple of months. For the life of me, I just couldn't seem to pick the right guy.
When I did finally date a guy that showed some promise, I wouldn't know how to handle it and ended up driving them away. It just hurt so much.
Around 5 years ago, I promised myself that I would finally get to the bottom of it and do as much reading on relationships as I could to be able to understand the dynamics between men and women.
Shortly after, I met Greg and when we started dating there was an immediate tranquility to our relationship that I hadn't felt before. It just felt right and it was all because I had changed my mindset and approach to relationships completely.
We are now happily married, and I couldn't be happier to have found my soulmate who supports me in all I do and who I can count on day in day out. My hope is that through Her Aspiration, I'm able to bring this same happiness to all women out there that haven't found it yet.